Jump to content


  • Content Count

  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won


Joe 【CDVNL】 last won the day on April 6

Joe 【CDVNL】 had the most liked content!

Community Reputation

126 Excellent

About Joe 【CDVNL】

  • Rank
    Level 8
  • Birthday February 22

Recent Profile Visitors

1138 profile views
  1. This is a short topic but my family has a disease called Alzheimer's and I'm worried that the people that i love can get it even me. My grandpa also has the disease and its been difficult since he can't even speak full sentences anymore it's been tough on me but i just keep positive all the time. I don't know if I should just keep the positivity act.
  2. I had a friend that I was really close to and she ended up stopping hanging out with me because her parents thought it would be best. It killed me because of how close she was to me and I'm not sure how to get past the pain.
  3. I always found myself to be a clingy person. I like to have few friends, but really close best friends. But lately I've noticed that every single time I talk to them, I'm the one who starts up conversations. I've asked before and they say that I'm not annoying to them. And during the day I could find myself starting a conversation every 4 hours. I wonder if I never started a conversation for a week, if nobody would talk to me. My friendships are one of the most important things in the world to me. But it worrys me to think that it's one sided. Whenever I try to look for an answer online, it says be a clingy person is bad. It could make people bored of me, you end up doing all the work in the relationship, and that you end up depending on others for happiness. But I find being clingy part of my personality. At the moment it seems all my friendships are doing great. But I fear that me being clingy could cause everything to crumble around me. (And I have had close people to me begin to treat me badly because of my clingy tendencies) How would I even train myself not to be like this? Should I being worried about this behavior? Or am I just overthinking everything?
  4. Hi Listori, You can try the chat button at the top of the screen... Hopefully that will work
  5. I've grown up very religiously my whole entire life, and from what my church teaches, its a sin to be gay. For the last couple years I've realized that I am in fact bisexual. And since than I've been able to realize how homophobic everyone in my church, and my family are. And all of the comments that are made I can't help but take personal. And I've actually been told by my mom that if I don't follow her rules I will be kicked out. And part of her rules are obeying our church. All the time I hear hateful homophobic comments from people that I care about. And I feel that the hate is personally attacking me. Also week after week, going to a place where I know that I am hated, and sitting and feeling, hate is difficult. And whenever I hear comments about sexuality I feel hated. I don't know if God exists, all I know is how I am. And the feeling I have towards people of the same gender of me is real. I've grown severely depressed. And I have severe anxiety. (I'm not blaming that on this situation alone, theres been a lot of stuff) Also I am 18, but I can't find a job, and I've been actively searching. So I don't know what to do. I am unable to move out, and would have nowhere to go. I am just scared. If all the people are true about what they say, I'll be hated by my family and church members, people I've known all my life, and that I care about. And the possibility of being kicked out of my house is one that seems to be very real. But otherwise it feels that I'm holding a secret in, and that feels very heavy. Every day I just feel fake. Its kinda hard to express how difficult this situation is on me. The question: Should I continue to hide my sexuality from the people around me, and feel the hate indirectly pointed towards me, or should I come clean, and feel the hate directly pointed towards myself, and possibly have the fate of being kicked out of my house with nowhere to go? (I understand that both static and CDVNL are Christian and am not accusing the two of you of being homophobic, I am only speaking in context of the church I go to.)
  6. Happy belated birthday, Joe! 🎂

    Sorry for being late. Hope you'll be doing great this year as well and I'll the best for you.

  7. Great work, Princess!! I love the tone of your voice, and your harmonies are awesome!
  8. "QBQ - The Question Behind the Question" John G Miller Some great insight in this book as you continue your mission of helping others be happy. Thanks for the great topic, Kendra!!
  9. Hey Science! Here are some good books that could help: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing With People - Les Giblin Success With People - Cavett Robert (powerful stuff - borderline manipulation) Personality Plus - Florence Littauer The Emotional Intelligence Quickbook - Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves Hopefully some of these can help out! I would start with the Les Giblin book if you haven't read it yet... Good Luck!!
  10. How do you stop self suppression? ...thoughts, feelings, emotions, wants, desires, etc.
  11. So I've been moving on with my life but I woke up to a couple of friends distrusting me. They asked my help to find a person since I was close to her last night and she was missing. But it kinda caught me off guard to know that her secret was told to a stranger. So there I was, being a prime suspect. It showed me how little they trusted me. It's resolved now, but it kinda saddens me to know how little I meant to them. I was asked for help only to get accused later.
  12. i lost a lot of my happiness because i have bursts of anger. every time i try to fix it i go back to it kinda sucks.
  13. So, I'm asking out of curiosity, because I'm in a weird spot with my... acquaintance. We had a massive arguement between the two of us once, so much so that we considered ourselves our mortal enemies. Well... Recently I went out to most people I hated IRL and decided to fix our relationships. We had a long talk and I think we hit a good note. Today, she did the weirdest thing ever. She got offended over me saying I have a girlfriend... Like, what? She hung up whenever I said that and blocked me everywhere. My first thought... She couldn't have pulled a 180° on me, could she? from enemy to a lover in less than a week, right? Right? I'm lost and worried. What do I do? enemy to a lover in less than a week, right? Right? I'm lost and worried. What do I do?
  14. How do you handle addicts? Like I have comrades that got involved with a lot of things ranging from drugs to self harming. The investment they had been rooted, I seriously am concerned
  15. Something to consider... Be Satisfied With Me by St. Anthony of Padua Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, To have a deep soul relationship with another, To be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But to a Christian, God says, “No, not until you are satisfied, Fulfilled and content with being loved by Me alone, With giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me. With having an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone. Discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, Will you be capable of the perfect human relationship, That I have planned for you. You will never be united to another Until you are united with Me. Exclusive of anyone or anything else. Exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, to stop wishing, and allow Me to give you The most thrilling plan existing . . . one you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow Me to bring it to you. You just keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things. Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things that I tell you. Just wait, that’s all. Don’t be anxious, don’t worry Don’t look around at things others have gotten Or that I have given them Don’t look around at the things you think you want, Just keep looking off and away up to Me, Or you’ll miss what I want to show you. And then, when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love Far more wonderful than you could dream of. You see, until you are ready, and until the one I have for you is ready, I am working even at this moment To have both of you ready at the same time. Until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me And the life I prepared for you, You won’t be able to experience the love that exemplified your relationship with Me. And this is perfect love. And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love, I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me. And to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I love you utterly. I AM God. Believe it and be satisfied
  • Create New...