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  1. Joe 【CDVNL】

    Kendra - Drained Smiles

    "QBQ - The Question Behind the Question" John G Miller Some great insight in this book as you continue your mission of helping others be happy. Thanks for the great topic, Kendra!!
  2. Hey Science! Here are some good books that could help: How to Win Friends and Influence People - Dale Carnegie How to Have Confidence and Power in Dealing With People - Les Giblin Success With People - Cavett Robert (powerful stuff - borderline manipulation) Personality Plus - Florence Littauer The Emotional Intelligence Quickbook - Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves Hopefully some of these can help out! I would start with the Les Giblin book if you haven't read it yet... Good Luck!!
  3. How do you stop self suppression? ...thoughts, feelings, emotions, wants, desires, etc.
  4. So I've been moving on with my life but I woke up to a couple of friends distrusting me. They asked my help to find a person since I was close to her last night and she was missing. But this? Kinda caught me off guard to know that her secret was told to a stranger. So there I was, being a prime suspect. Showed me how little they trusted me. It's resolved but it kinda saddens me to know how little I meant. How asking for help only to get accused later.
  5. i lost a lot of my happiness because i have bursts of anger. every time i try to fix it i go back to it kinda sucks.
  6. So, I'm asking out of curiosity, because I'm in a weird spot with my... acquaintance. We had a massive arguement between the two of us once, so much so that we considered ourselves our mortal enemies. Well... Recently I went out to most people I hated IRL and decided to fix our relationships. We had a long talk and I think we hit a good note. Today, she did the weirdest thing ever. She got offended over me saying I have a girlfriend... Like, what? She hung up whenever I said that and blocked me everywhere. My first thought... She couldn't have pulled a 180° on me, could she? from enemy to a lover in less than a week, right? Right? I'm lost and worried. What do I do? enemy to a lover in less than a week, right? Right? I'm lost and worried. What do I do?
  7. How do you handle addicts? Like I have comrades that got involved with a lot of things ranging from drugs to self harming. The investment they had been rooted, I seriously am concerned
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    ScienceRocks - Improper Rejection

    Something to consider... Be Satisfied With Me by St. Anthony of Padua Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone, To have a deep soul relationship with another, To be loved thoroughly and exclusively. But to a Christian, God says, “No, not until you are satisfied, Fulfilled and content with being loved by Me alone, With giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me. With having an intensely personal and unique relationship with Me alone. Discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found, Will you be capable of the perfect human relationship, That I have planned for you. You will never be united to another Until you are united with Me. Exclusive of anyone or anything else. Exclusive of any other desires or longings. I want you to stop planning, to stop wishing, and allow Me to give you The most thrilling plan existing . . . one you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best. Please allow Me to bring it to you. You just keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things. Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am. Keep listening and learning the things that I tell you. Just wait, that’s all. Don’t be anxious, don’t worry Don’t look around at things others have gotten Or that I have given them Don’t look around at the things you think you want, Just keep looking off and away up to Me, Or you’ll miss what I want to show you. And then, when you’re ready, I’ll surprise you with a love Far more wonderful than you could dream of. You see, until you are ready, and until the one I have for you is ready, I am working even at this moment To have both of you ready at the same time. Until you are both satisfied exclusively with Me And the life I prepared for you, You won’t be able to experience the love that exemplified your relationship with Me. And this is perfect love. And dear one, I want you to have this most wonderful love, I want you to see in the flesh a picture of your relationship with Me. And to enjoy materially and concretely the everlasting union of beauty, perfection and love that I offer you with Myself. Know that I love you utterly. I AM God. Believe it and be satisfied
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    Taking things personally - Anonymous

  10. So iv been with my Gf for almost 3 years and for all 3 of them iv been trying to show her how beatuffle she is when she thinks shes not and puts herself down cuz of it and no mater what i do try and be there for her she allways gose back to it and her apreance and tarese herself down on it and iv got nothing left i can tell her that i havnt allready and im lost
  11. So... My stepfather has been drunk for three days now. He keeps yelling and yesterday he was just..overwhelming... Yesterday, he was being extremely rude. He screamed at my mother Tueesday because my sister and I went to school when he apparently said we didn't have to. When we got home, he was still yelling. He drank beer when he woke up yesterday morning and continued to drink throughout the day so when we got home, he was drunk. Well, my sister, mother and I were in my mother's room. He walked in and was trying to apologise and show her some affection. Well at that point, he bit her thigh too hard. When she tried to get him off, he bit her again. He thought he was being funny, but it hurt her. I ended up hitting him to get him off of her. He then proceeded to scream at her and threw a fit because he said she overreacted. I have never wanted to hit someone so bad. While he was throwing a fit, my mother poured his beer into the sink and that made it even worse. He eventually stole my bike after packing his beer and left to his mother's house. I hate him... I really wish he would just leave... He came back later and said that he crashed my bike and I kept my mouth shut, but I wanted him to brake a bone. And he had the audacity to threaten my mother. He's almost exactly like my father. The only difference is that he doesn't hit me. I hate him so much more than I ever had...